I don't like to drink alone. I don't like to eat alone. I don't like to exercise alone. I am not suited to employment that doesn't keep me around people. I'd make a terrible hermit, so Unibombering is right out, and I'd probably be a poor candidate for being marooned on a desert island.
This is the thing that I need to get over. When I don't have a boyfriend (i.e. someone who is either hanging out with me or open to receiving late phone calls), I lose weight because nothing sounds good enough to eat to be worth the trouble of making or ordering it. I lose sleep because I stay up way too late reading, dicking around on the internet or blathering on my secret blog. I'm a truly extroverted person. I do fine with roommates, I love entertaining, and I can work 50 or 60 hours a week for a month before realizing that having a rewarding, social job is not the same as having a rewarding social life.
When I was in my early twenties I solved this problem by working full time, going to school full time and partying like a rock star. That's all great, but a lifestyle like that could kill you if you let it go on too long. Now of course, it's all different. I still pack in social and work stuff on the 3 or 4 nights a week I don't have my kids, but on the nights I do have them, things are pretty calm. I do stuff with them till they go to bed, but after 8:30 or so, I tiptoe around a quiet house and entertain myself with activities like trying to drink a whole beer or sweeping the floors. I need a hobby. My goal is to figure out how to maintain my energy level without having somebody else around.
So right now, I guess I'll go to bed, sober and not all that tired, because that's what grownups do. Right?
Going to be sober and not tired SUCKS.
ReplyDeleteGrownups go out and meet cool people. Try it :)